The Parables of Jesus Series | Parable of The Ten Bridesmaids

The next category of parables we will be looking at are the parables of Judgement and the Future. The first group of parables in this category are the parables about Christ’s return. Today we will be looking at the first parable in this group.

The parable of the ten bridesmaids can be found in Matthew 25:1-13. It reads;

“Then the Kingdom of Heaven will be like ten bridesmaids who took their lamps and went to meet the bridegroom. Five of them were foolish, and five were wise. The five who were foolish didn’t take enough olive oil for their lamps, but the other five were wise enough to take along extra oil. When the bridegroom was delayed, they all became drowsy and fell asleep.

“At midnight they were roused by the shout, ‘Look, the bridegroom is coming! Come out and meet him!’

“All the bridesmaids got up and prepared their lamps. Then the five foolish ones asked the others, ‘Please give us some of your oil because our lamps are going out.’

“But the others replied, ‘We don’t have enough for all of us. Go to a shop and buy some for yourselves.’

10 “But while they were gone to buy oil, the bridegroom came. Then those who were ready went in with him to the marriage feast, and the door was locked. 11 Later, when the other five bridesmaids returned, they stood outside, calling, ‘Lord! Lord! Open the door for us!’

12 “But he called back, ‘Believe me, I don’t know you!’

13 “So you, too, must keep watch! For you do not know the day or hour of my return.


This parables buttresses the fact that each of us is responsible for our individual spiritual condition.

The parable is about a wedding. On the wedding day the bridegroom went to the bride’s house for the ceremony; then the bride and groom, along with a great procession, returned to the groom’s house, where a feast too place, often lasting a full week.

These 10 bridesmaids were waiting to join the procession, and they hoped to take part in the marriage feast. But when the groom didn’t come at the expected time, five of them were out of oil. By the time they had purchased extra oil, it was too late to join the feast.

The 5 foolish bridesmaids were foolish because they didn’t take extra oil. Notice they took oil with them but what they had was not enough. We all are preparing for Christ’s return but the fire in some believers is gone.

When the bridegroom comes, will He find our fire burning? When He appears, or when our time on earth is up, will we have oil in our lamps?

I also saw this parable from another angle. Notice how the bridesmaids were sleeping? Sleeping represents tiredness and fatigue. There is a saying that we should make hay while the sun shine. Now that we are alive, strong and well, it’s important that we store up oils and keep extras in us. We need to be charged up in God’s word. This isn’t the time to be nonchalant because our strength isn’t guaranteed forever.

Let’s pray now that we can.

Let’s study our bibles now that we can.

Let’s do what God is laying on our hearts now that we can.

Let’s stay ready because no one knows when our time will be up.

If you would like to read previous parables, please click here.

14 thoughts on “The Parables of Jesus Series | Parable of The Ten Bridesmaids

  1. Oh Lord help me I humbly pray to watch for your return each day.

    No one knows when the Son of Man is coming ee neither know the day nor the hour, but we can only keep watching and praying. The day of coming is nearing so watch to stay ready

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  2. Good morning and God bless you sister of the most high Lord of all creation. ♡ I love this blog. This is definitely the message for the day, as the Lord had ne include the same parable in today’s blog at my site. Oh God is so good. We may not know the hour, but we know we are to be ready!
    Thanks for sharing and for your commitment to our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. May He bless you abundantly today and always, keeping you close to His side. In Jesus name I ask Him. Amen.

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  3. Good morning, my dear sister! I was so happy to see your post on my feed this morning. Your timely reminder that each of us is responsible for our own relationship with the Lord and our ultimate salvation. And it is important that you reminded everyone to be ready! Thank you so much for writing in such a clear way that calls us to respond.

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    1. Awww Vickie! I have truly missed being on here more often. I have added something else to my plate which is taking a lot of my time at the moment. Thank you so much for thinking of me and for reading my post. I hope you are well sis? God is always good😊

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      1. I am well, although I miss seeing our grandchildren, but that can’t be helped. Lots of FaceTime calls and little gifts going to them. I hope that you are well and know that whatever you are doing, you are doing a good job of it. Blessings to you, my friend!

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      2. Thank God for technology that is helping in bridging the gap for now. I do miss being on here as I used to. Hoping to be able to get back soon. It’s really nice hearing from you sis. God bless you❤️

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