Are You Living For The ‘Like’ Button?

Oh the ‘like’ button (sigh)! How have we all fallen into your trick! You all know that feeling of constantly refreshing your blog stats to see if your latest post is being viewed and liked? Or that post you put up on social media to see if certain people in your life are liking your post?

The issue is this. What happens if your blog post hasn’t been liked by anyone? Do you ignite the flame of offense inside you? Don’t get me wrong, I love approval. There is a part of us all that yearns for approval. It’s good to know that people find your post good and inspiring. However let’s also remember that it isn’t always about the numbers. If God has placed it in your heart to post about something then do it and leave it there. That post might just be for one person and so long it ends up ministering to that person it is fine.

How about the pressure of wanting a lot of followers? I felt that pressure in my first month of active blogging (in March). I was expecting God to flood followers into my website since He led me to start this. The interesting thing was I struggled to get followers then when I wanted to be doing the ‘pursuing’ on my own. The day I decided to shift my focus from wanting to get or attract followers, God started leading people to my website. You see, that is the trick! Stop writing to attract and impress people. Write as you are led by the spirit. This is when you are pleasing God.

How about other social media platforms. I wonder how many relationships have been ruined just because one person isn’t liking the other’s post or pictures. Have you ever been in this position? Maybe not. Ok have you ever been tempted to feel this way? I guess i got a nod there. Well you are not alone. I have felt this way before. Funny how a grown up can start acting like a child just because of the ‘like’ button. The drama usually goes in this format. You put up a post, your closest friends don’t ‘like’ the post. Then you go back to view a couple of your past posts to see if they ‘liked’ those. If they didn’t, a war starts within you. Then you start ignoring their posts and pictures too. In other words ‘like for like’. How superficial and childish have we become? Isn’t it worrying how we can start up a battle towards someone just because of the ‘like’ button? It shouldn’t be so.

Stop living your life to please people. Seek to please God. That is what matters in the end. How beautiful and amazing will our lives be if we seek to please God as much as we seek to please people?

Don’t build your life around the ‘like’ button. If you do, you will end up being angry and miserable. Stop having a bad day because no one liked your post. Always think about the reason why you are doing what you are doing? Never lose sight of the bigger picture. Cheers to continuing being led by the spirit and not the flesh! 🙂

Am I now trying to win the favor and approval of men, or of God? Or am I seeking to please someone? If I were still trying to be popular with men, I would not be a bond-servant of Christ.” ‭‭GALATIANS‬ ‭1:10‬ ‭AMP‬‬



16 thoughts on “Are You Living For The ‘Like’ Button?

  1. You are definitely right!Stop pleasing the people but please our Abba father. I kinda relate in what you have said that you wanted many followers in your blog since God leads you to it, but our expectations didn’t meet. Until we will only attract those followers if we are empowered byHoly Spirit that gives Glory to God, not to uplift ourselves. Nice post! God Bless 🙂


  2. This is a great read Efua! There was a time when I would look at every like on social media but I don’t pay attention any longer because it did have a negative impact in my life. It’s made a huge difference. God Bless you sis! Love this!

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  3. Amen and Amen!! This is so true! We all need to remember Who we are writing with and for…to God be all the glory…and not worry about numbers. Excellent post! 🙂

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  4. One of life lesson for me ;”Stop living your life to please people. Seek to please God. That is what matters in the end. How beautiful and amazing will our lives be if we seek to please God as much as we seek to please people?” Seek Always to please God . Thanks Efua.

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  5. Once again you have written an inspiring post that reflects exactly how I am feeling. When I started this blog 3 months ago in July, I created my blog for the sole purpose of impacting the lives of others and giving them a biblical perspective on situations that happen in our lives.

    However, there have been times where my need for approval and recognition from others has caused me to adapt the “like for a like” mentality and I have seen how that has affected my writing. Now, I am continuing to remind myself of the original reason why I created my blog in the first place and now; thanks to God and His Word, I am able to impact the lives of people all across the globe.

    This need for approval and recognition however can lead us down a path of self-pride that can ultimately be our “downfall” in the blogosphere. I recently looked at a YouTube video by Pastor Robert Madu that talks about Pride.

    You should give it a look: .

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    1. “This need for approval and recognition however can lead us down a path of self-pride that can ultimately be our “downfall” in the blogosphere.” So much truth in this sentence. The beginning of our downfall is when we become approval led instead of Spirit led. I will check out that video. Thanks again for taking time to read and comment. Continue to allow God use you to shed light in this dark world.


      1. I will and I also commented on your post: Guard your Faith. It truly was an encouraging post. Likewise, continue to let God use you to impact the world.

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